About the course

When communication breaks down, it is easy to feel exhausted from carrying the emotional weight or tired of always saying the wrong thing. One of you might shut down to prevent the fight from escalating, while the other feels like they are doing all the work just to stay connected. The truth is that most couples are not fighting about the issue. They are fighting the cycle. Awareness creates clarity, but implementation creates transformation. This course delivers the complete seven-step CONNECT framework to help you stop repeating the same arguments.  You will learn to observe the cycle underneath your fights, name the unmet needs driving the disconnect, and express yourselves without escalating. You'll get the practical tools you need to build real connection and finally build same-team communication.

Course Creators

Memi, The Analytical Romantic After 15+ years as a data analyst, Memi discovered that relationships have patterns too — and patterns can be changed. As a first-generation Nigerian-American, she brings a unique cultural perspective to love and marriage. She's passionate about helping couples see each other as friends, not foes. Dr Lara, The Clinical Expert A licensed clinical psychologist and relationship expert who has helped many couples transform their communication through her viral relationship tools, podcast series, and E-books. She's passionate about helping couples move past friction and connect with clarity. Together, we're the co-founders of Marriage Pinnacle and hosts of the podcast "Chats from the Peak." Our mission: Help couples enjoy the peaks while navigating the lows.

Curriculum

7 Chapters · 55 Lessons

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      Lesson 1: Welcome to Communication That Actually Works!

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      Lesson 2: Why the Same Fight Keeps Happening

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      Lesson 3: Breaking the Conflict Loop in Relationships: Understanding Your Reactions

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      Lesson 4: The Pause Principle

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      Lesson 5: Mapping Your Cycle Pattern

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      Lesson 6: Guided Exercise — Trigger Mapping

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      Module 1 Recap

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      Lesson 1: Welcome & Warm-Up

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      Lesson 2: The 6 Communication Styles

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      Lesson 3: Primary + Secondary Styles

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      Lesson 4: Styles Under Stress

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      Lesson 5: Common Style Combinations

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      Lesson 6: Guided Exercise — Style Profile & Translation Practice

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      Lesson 7: Wrap-Up & Assignment

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      Lesson 1: The Language of Love & Logic

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      Lesson 2: Building Your Emotions Vocabulary

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      Lesson 3: The Love & Logic Formula

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      Lesson 4: The Softened Startup

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      Lesson 5: When & Where to Talk

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      Lesson 6: Common Pitfalls

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      Lesson 7: Guided Exercise — Script Practice

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      Lesson 1: Introduction to Module 4

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      Lesson 2: Why Listening Fails

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      Lesson 3: The Body Language of Listening

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      Lesson 4: Know Your Listening Blockers

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      Lesson 5: The Validation Trifecta

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      Lesson 6: Curiosity Questions

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      Lesson 7: Listening in Conflict

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      Lesson 8: Guided Exercise

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      Lesson 9: Wrap-Up & Assignment

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      Lesson 1: Opening Story

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      Lesson 2: Healthy vs. Harmful Conflict

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      Lesson 3: Recognizing Flooding

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      Lesson 4: The Time-Out Protocol

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      Lesson 5: Repair Attempts That Work

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      Lesson 6: The After-Fight Conversation

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      Lesson 7: The Anatomy of a Good Apology

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      Lesson 8: Guided Exercise — Fair Fighting Agreement

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      Lesson 9: Fighting Fair and Repairing Fast

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      Lesson 1: Designing a Culture of Connection

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      Lesson 2: Why Culture Matters

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      Lesson 3: Connection Killers

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      Lesson 4: Connection Languages

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      Lesson 5: Connection Audit & Culture Builder

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      Lesson 6: Protecting Your Connection Routines

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      Lesson 7: Ritual Recovery

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      Lesson 1: The Journey So Far

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      Lesson 2: The Marriage Blueprint Overview

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      Lesson 3: Blueprint Section 1 — Our Communication Commitments

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      Lesson 4: Blueprint Section 2 — Our Conflict Agreements

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      Lesson 5: Blueprint Section 3 — Our Connection Routines

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      Lesson 6: Your 90-Day Action Plan

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      Lesson 7: When Things Get Hard — Handling Setbacks

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      Lesson 8: Knowing When to Get Help

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      Lesson 9: Course Celebration & Closing: Building Marriage Brick by Brick, Together

Stop fighting the cycle and start building real connection. Get the complete seven-step CONNECT framework and finally navigate hard conversations on the exact same team.

Implementation creates transformation. Step out of the pattern and install a completely new operating system for your marriage with practical tools you can use tonight. Ready to stop repeating the same fight?

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